The Paradigm Blog
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Success Story: Healing a 17-year marriage
Not long ago, I was referred a couple who had been navigating an on-again, off-again relationship for over 17 years. Their story was one of love, separation, and reconnection, a cycle they desperately wanted to break.
When they came to me, they asked the big question: How do we stop this pattern?
How to find yourself
Rediscovery is not a one-time event; it’s a process. Each layer you peel back reveals another part of you waiting to be seen. Celebrate the small wins along the way. That’s progress. And with each step, you’ll feel more and more like yourself again.
Learning from Levites: A perspective.
Levites were known as the guardians of sacred spaces among other things. They kept a community connected, not just to faith. It was purposeful service, protecting the sacred, and ensuring that people stayed focused on what mattered most. In a way, I can see similarities in coaching.
How different paradigms manipulate
Manipulation isn’t always emotional. Discover how people can manipulate your feelings, thoughts, and actions—and learn strategies to stay true to yourself. Build stronger boundaries with insights into the subtle tactics of Heart, Mind, and Gut manipulators.
Mapping the Person
Imagine you could visualize your own life map—where would your strengths and gaps show up? Which areas feel aligned, and which need nurturing? Achieving balance isn’t about perfection; it’s about observing, understanding, and then aligning each part of yourself. Often, that first step of self-discovery reveals insights you never expected. Are you curious about what your map might look like?
Not everything is a trauma response.
Social media can make it easy to believe that every action or reaction we have is a response to past trauma. But sometimes, responses reflect personality, choice, or environment—not psychological wounds.
A New Saga: Releasing Old Attachments to Make Room for New Connections
Starting a new book in my life means embracing a fresh sense of purpose. I’ve been clearing away past attachments and reimagining connections that truly reflect where I’m headed. Letting go has expanded my capacity for those who matter most and has empowered me to make room for connections that give back as much as they receive. This is my time to lean into relationships that lift me and bring me joy—while leaving behind what no longer serves.