The Linchpin - Getting to the part that’s got you stuck
If you’ve been carrying a pain that feels bigger than the moment itself or trapped in a cycle that won’t break, let’s work together. The process is simpler than you might think, but the results are profound. Through honest conversation and a fresh perspective, we’ll uncover the linchpin that’s keeping you stuck and set you on the path to freedom.
The Lingering of Limerence
Limerence can cloud your judgment and make you lose sight of your own needs. It’s okay to feel deeply for someone, but it’s important to recognize when those feelings are more about longing than love. Real connection comes from seeing someone for who they truly are vs who you wish them to be. Understanding this aspect of connection can make you a better friend to others in a way that is wholesome and healthy for both you and them.
Thinkers - Let your heart and body do some of the lifting
Your mind, heart, and body were designed to work together. They’re like a team, each with its own role to play. When your head takes over, it’s not just unfair to the other two—it’s unsustainable.
Tips to stop overthinking
Your head is doing all the work. It’s carrying the weight of every decision, every worry, and every detail you’re trying to figure out. No wonder it feels like it’s ready to burst. Here’s the thing: you are not just your mind. You’re mind, heart, and body, and when your head hogs the processing, it’s like asking one person to row a three-person boat. Sooner or later, they’re going to burn out.
Overcoming Stress Addiction
Stress addiction doesn’t mean you consciously want to feel stressed. It’s more about how your mind and body have adapted to high-stress environments over time.